Worried your baby is reacting to milk?
Specialist cow's milk allergy support for babies and toddlers, from understanding symptoms to feeding confidently on a dairy free diet.
Perhaps you have been advised to cut out dairy but are not sure whether it is helping. Or your baby has a cow's milk protein allergy diagnosis, and now you have questions about formula, breastfeeding, weaning and what comes next.
I will help you make sense of the advice and work out the next steps for your baby.
£375 · 60 minutes · Online. Start with one appointment. Monthly follow-up is available if you need more support.
The worries parents bring to me
- Your baby is unsettled, uncomfortable or difficult to feed, and you are wondering whether milk is involved
- You have changed formula or removed dairy, but you are unsure what difference it has made
- Your baby has been diagnosed with cow's milk protein allergy, but you still have questions
- You are breastfeeding and worried about what you need to avoid, or how to meet your own nutritional needs
- You are starting solids and do not know which foods and dairy alternatives to choose
- Your toddler avoids milk, perhaps soya too, and you worry about calcium, nutrition or weight gain
- You are constipated with worry about their constipation, and dairy changes have not settled it
- You have been told to try the milk ladder but are not sure whether your child is ready
- You are on an NHS waiting list and your baby is still struggling now
You do not need to have all the answers before booking. The consultation is where we bring your questions, your baby's history and the advice you have received together.
Help from someone who knows children’s nutrition
I'm Bahee Van de Bor, a specialist paediatric dietitian with over 20 years of clinical experience, including 12 years at Great Ormond Street Hospital.
I help you make sense of feeding advice and build a practical plan for your baby.
You'll have time to ask questions and understand what to do next.
"We were added to the NHS system which was too slow for us with backlogs from covid."
Kirsty G Google review · parent of an infant diagnosed with dairy and soya intolerance at 10 weeks
Milk and soya allergy in babies and toddlers
Suspected cow's milk protein allergy
Is cow's milk protein allergy, often called CMPA, a possibility worth exploring? We will review the symptom pattern and what has happened so far, including any dietary trials.
I will explain where dietetic support can help, and when your baby needs assessment by their GP, paediatrician or allergy team.
Breastfeeding and a dairy free diet
If you have been advised to remove dairy while breastfeeding, we can review what you are eating, suitable alternatives and how to protect your own nutritional intake.
We will also discuss how the dietary trial is being reviewed, so you are not left avoiding foods without a clear next step.
Specialist formula
Choosing between formulas can feel bewildering. We can discuss your baby's current formula, feeding difficulties and the questions to take back to their prescriber about suitable options.
Milk and soya allergy
If milk and soya are both being avoided, we will look at why, what your child can eat and how to keep their diet as varied as possible.
Dairy free weaning
Starting solids brings enough questions without an allergy to consider too. We will work through suitable foods, label reading and meal ideas, with attention to the nutrients your baby needs as they grow.
Calcium, nutrition and growth
You may be wondering whether your child gets enough calcium, iodine, protein or energy without dairy. We will review their intake, identify gaps and discuss appropriate foods, drinks or supplements.
Constipation and other tummy symptoms
If your baby or toddler is still uncomfortable despite dietary changes, we will look at the wider feeding and bowel pattern rather than assuming every symptom comes from milk.
The milk ladder and reintroduction
We will discuss whether home reintroduction is appropriate for your child and how it fits with their medical team's advice. Where a milk ladder is suitable, I can help you understand the steps and plan follow-up.
One appointment, and a plan you can act on
Before we meet
You complete a questionnaire about your baby's symptoms, feeding, growth and any foods or formulas you have tried. This gives me the background before our appointment.
Your 60 minute online appointment
We go through your main concerns, review what your baby eats and drinks, and agree practical next steps. You can ask about the things that matter at home: feeds, food labels, nursery, weaning, alternatives and managing advice from different people.
Your written plan
A personalised plan explaining what we have agreed, what to do next and how progress should be reviewed. If further medical assessment is needed, I will explain that too.
Want support once the plan starts?
You can book a single consultation without committing to ongoing care.
If you would like help putting the plan into practice, ongoing monthly support is available. It is rolling, with no minimum term, and you can cancel at any time.
This gives us time to review your child's response, answer new questions and adjust the plan as feeding or dietary needs change. It can be particularly useful during weaning, reintroduction, or when nutritional intake needs closer attention.
We can discuss it after your initial assessment, once we understand what support your family needs.
Optional monthly support afterwards, if you want it.
Rolling, no minimum term, cancel at any time. We discuss it after your first appointment.
In their words
"I first reached out to Bahee because my daughter has a dairy allergy and was struggling to put on weight. This was very stressful, worrying and time-consuming trying to work out what to give her. Working with Bahee helped me to take things step by step and she showed me how to introduce high-calorie snacks. We also discussed meal ideas as well as how to make sure that my daughter is getting enough calcium from the dairy alternatives. Since completing the Programme my life is much less stressful and my daughter is eating and gaining weight well. It was really worth getting help from Bahee and it really has been life-changing as I felt stuck."
Claire M Google review · parent of an infant
Why this one is here
Claire arrived worried about something more immediate than the allergy itself. Her daughter's weight. That is usually how this starts. The allergy is the label. The thing keeping you awake is whether your child is getting enough.
This review relates to previous programme support. Your appointment and recommendations will be tailored to your child.
The things parents ask me first
Does my baby need a confirmed milk allergy diagnosis?
No. You can book if milk allergy is suspected, or if you need help managing an existing diagnosis. The appointment supports dietary assessment and management alongside your baby's medical care.
Do you offer allergy testing?
I do not provide allergy tests. If testing or further medical assessment is appropriate, I will explain the next steps with your GP or allergy team. I do not recommend IgG food intolerance testing.
My baby is already dairy free. Can you still help?
Yes. We will review why dairy was removed, what changed afterwards and whether your baby's current diet meets their needs. Bring any previous advice or plans so we can work from the full picture.
Can I book while waiting for an NHS appointment?
Yes. You can seek private dietetic support while waiting. Please keep your existing appointments and share any relevant advice from your NHS team so we can coordinate your baby's care.
Do I have to join the monthly follow-up?
No. The initial consultation is a standalone appointment costing £375. Ongoing monthly support is entirely optional, and I only suggest it when I think it will genuinely help.
Can I use private health insurance?
I'm recognised by WPA. Please check your cover and any authorisation requirements with your insurer before booking. You pay me directly, and I provide an invoice for you to submit to your insurer. Reimbursement depends on your policy.
What if my child is older and has ongoing tummy problems?
If your main concerns are persistent constipation, tummy pain, diarrhoea or IBS-type symptoms in an older child, the Happy Belly Club® is the better fit. A single appointment is unlikely to be enough for that pattern.
Is this an urgent or emergency service?
No. This is planned dietetic support and does not replace your GP, paediatrician or allergy team. If your child is acutely unwell, contact them or seek urgent medical care.
If you are unsure which appointment to choose, email [email protected].
Parents who arrived where you are now
These reviews were left by families I supported through milk and soya allergy, some of them some years ago. They relate to the support available at the time. Your appointment and recommendations will be tailored to your child.
"We reached out to Bahee when we suspected our son had a milk protein allergy. She was able to come up with a weaning plan for him in order to minimise risk of other allergens. We also used Bahee's guidance on how to carefully reintroduce milk in our son's diet and she's been an amazing support throughout, sharing latest products and recipes. Would highly recommend her to anyone experiencing similar issues with their child."
Ana Comsa Google review
"We got in touch with Bahee as we were extremely worried about our daughter's frequent bowel motions and facial rash. Since working through the gut health programme, Bahee fine-tuned my diet (as my baby is breastfed). My daughter's bowel movements have now reduced significantly to a normal rhythm. She is also gaining weight. Her skin is clearer and she no longer has facial rashes. We count on Bahee and her regular updates to our nutritional plan. It feels great to be in safe hands. We are very pleased with the results we have achieved with Bahee. We are counting on working together to ensure our daughter's health and long-term eating habits."
Maral Google review
"We contacted Bahee as we were struggling to introduce new foods to my 10 month old daughter (having tried for over 6 months). This was after a history of problems with formula and a non-IGE CMPA diagnosis on the NHS. Feeding was a daily challenge and it was upsetting to see my daughter suffering still with silent reflux, skin issues and tummy troubles. Bahee was amazing! She determined another allergy was at play and we swapped to formula number 14! I was very nervous about this due to the history but Bahee explained everything so well and gave me the confidence to do so. Within two weeks the reflux and skin issues disappeared and now slowly, following Bahee's expert advice, we are introducing new foods in a controlled manner. Bahee's knowledge is fantastic, her approach logical and she supports you the entire time (she even called the GP to ensure we got the formula quickly). I can't thank her enough and wouldn't hesitate to recommend her to others!"
Alison Google review
"Life was a struggle trying to get to the bottom of what was causing my son's symptoms. We attended the doctor numerous times but were not taken seriously. I wasn't sure that a paediatric dietitian was the right approach but since talking with Bahee, and going through my son's symptoms and history, we eventually got to the bottom of what has been causing the problem. I followed the plan and the results were clear to see within days. We feel that we have direction now. We no longer have to guess which foods do or do not agree with him, which is such a big weight off our shoulders. Now my child's symptoms have resolved and he is also showing some weight gain. Bahee listens to what you have to say and advises through her experience what may also be the best course of action to take."
Neeta Google review
"We originally sought Bahee's help after out 15 month year old was still very unwell despite taking the necessary reflux medication and avoiding milk. As soon as Bahee saw our son she advised we cut out soya along with a variety of other ingredients. She advised on meal plans, gave us links to useful information, sent us episodes of her podcast, and provided a follow up consultation via skype. I would thoroughly recommend visiting Bahee and getting her advise. I wish we had sought it sooner."
Flora Google review
"Have used this service for advice about my daughter's cow's milk protein allergy many times, and can't recommend it enough. Bahee is extremely responsive and gives useful, practical and timely advice, including advice about how to (hopefully) eventually overcome the allergy. It has really helped us as allergy novices!"
Rose Google review
"We first contacted Bahee when our Son was 7 months and being introduced to foods. Bahee has really helped us navigate our Sons' allergies, providing us with a great range of knowledge to help our son with his nutrition. She has provided on going support in a professional and empathetic way. We would not hesitate to recommend her."
Phoenix Google review
"Bahee is a lovely person who is very kind, welcoming and professional. She was very thorough ensuring all guidance and important information is covered and explained, making sure all options were investigated including a referral to specialist where required. I would highly recommend her services and I would definitely return for any advice/help that my child needs."
Chezanne Google review
Get a clear next step for your baby
You do not have to work through feeding changes, food labels and conflicting advice on your own. Let's review what is happening and put a practical plan together.
£375 · 60 minutes · Online. One appointment to start. Optional monthly follow-up if you need it.